Endings, Beginnings and Giving ‘Bad’ Stress the Bullet…

6th February 2012 - 3:57pm

 To say that 2011 was a milestone year in my life is putting it mildly.

- I achieved my first publishing contracts

- Etopia Press and Gypsy Shadow both published books of mine

- I achieved my first ebook sales on both sides of the Atlantic

- I found out how great it is to work with a professional editor - and to have fantastic  cover art

These were the good things.

But there was another darker, and more dangerous, side to 2011.

It was the year, I became ill with work related stress. Not in my writing life - that proved to be the therapy that stopped the men in white coats from coming to cart me off. This was all related to my 'day' job and carried on for well over a year, probably more.

I do not recommend work related stress. As most of us know, there are two kinds of stress - positive and negative. Positive stress is 'Good Stress'. It fires the adrenalin, kickstarts creativity and imagination, makes us strive to achieve. I have always thrived on positive stress.

Negative stress is something entirely different. It is 'Bad Stress'. Dark, morbid, scary, inhabiting a murky world where all you want to do is run away, or hide, climb into a box, pull the lid down and not emerge until it's all over. In its wake, come nasty little demons, crawling out from under slime encrusted nightmares and fetid pools of bad memories. Panic is the norm. Relaxation unheard of. Sleep impossible. Self esteem and confidence crumble. 'Can do' becomes 'Can't hack it.'

No. Negative stress is not our friend.

2012 is the year I decided to give negative stress the bullet. Hurrah! 

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http://www.catherinecavendish.com/2012/02/endings-beginnings-and-giving-bad.html


Seneca's picture

Hurrah, indeed!

I have also gone through over a year of health problems and stress including a spell on medication. My department has also been told it is being made redundant as of the 1st April (I work in the NHS) HOWEVER - I'm viewing that date as a new beginning - and will be taking some time to relax and get back into some regular writing. 2012 will be better than 2011 Smile

Annauthor's picture

Thank you!

Thank you all for your good wishes. I wish you the same in your endeavours. Daniel Spaniel - hope your hub is strong again very soon.

Daniel Spaniel's picture

Very poignant for me

as my hub is currently in hospital with 'bad stress'. Three cheers to you for firing the bullet. DS

Crowe's picture

Good for you, Ann!

I'm doing something similar myself this year, and for similar reasons. I know "life is too short ..." is a cliche, but it's no less true for that.

webspinner's picture

Congrats!

Congrats and wishing you all the best in your new endeavours! I am sure many more novels will be born as a result. PS I did try to comment on the blog, but gave up ...

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